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Video · Analyzing why it ended

Video: Analyzing Why It Ended

Why did it end? What did I do wrong? If you keep asking yourself these questions, and the answers never come, this video is for you. You’ll learn three things. At the end, I’ll tell you what you need to do.

In this video

  • Why going over the reasons for the breakup can lead you to fill the gaps badly.
  • How not understanding the reasons can turn into self-blame, and into intrusive thoughts and images.
  • What I found in my study about people who tried to make sense of the reasons.
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From my researchIn my research, understanding the reasons for the breakup wasn’t associated with more grief. Going over them was.

Dr. Silvia Buet González

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Dr. Silvia Buet González

Author and psychologist. Over 35 years of experience in the UK as a BABCP-accredited CBT psychotherapist. PhD research on breakup distress at Queen’s University Belfast.

Video: Analyzing Why It Ended