In this video
- Why going over the reasons for the breakup can lead you to fill the gaps badly.
- How not understanding the reasons can turn into self-blame, and into intrusive thoughts and images.
- What I found in my study about people who tried to make sense of the reasons.
- Sent to your email.
From my researchIn my research, understanding the reasons for the breakup wasn’t associated with more grief. Going over them was.


