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Video: How To Solve Your Worries After A Breakup

Should I stay friends with my ex? Some worries have a solution. They’re about a real problem or decision that’s already here and in your control. This video takes you through a 7-step problem-solving method.

The aim

Solve a worry that has a solution, step by step, instead of going over it.

What you get

  • A 17-minute video
  • A worked example: how I used the 7 steps after my own breakup
  • Exercise 1: Transform Your Worries Into “What If” Questions
  • Exercise 2: The 7-Step Problem-Solving Form, from defining the problem to evaluating your decision
  • Sent to your email.
Dr. Silvia Buet González

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Dr. Silvia Buet González

Author and psychologist. Over 35 years of experience in the UK as a BABCP-accredited CBT psychotherapist. PhD research on breakup distress at Queen’s University Belfast.

Video: How To Solve Your Worries After A Breakup