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Self-assessment · Being attached to your ex

Have I Disengaged From My Ex?

Do I still love them? Falling out of love shows in how you feel and in what you do. This self-assessment rates 10 areas, 5 emotional and 5 behavioral, and helps you write a plan for each one.

The aim

See how far you’ve disengaged from your ex, emotionally and behaviorally, and plan what to change.

What you get

  • A self-assessment of 10 areas, from love and interest to contact and intimacy
  • An action plan for each area
  • A PDF you can fill in on screen or print
  • Sent to your email.

From my researchIn my research, how close you felt to your ex when it ended was associated with more breakup grief.

Dr. Silvia Buet González

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Dr. Silvia Buet González

Author and psychologist. Over 35 years of experience in the UK as a BABCP-accredited CBT psychotherapist. PhD research on breakup distress at Queen’s University Belfast.

Have I Disengaged From My Ex?