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Cognitive Behavioral Techniques To Stop Seeking Closeness To Your Ex

I’ll just check one more time. Choose 5 of 16 behavioral techniques and 2 of 5 cognitive ones, and use them each week until you stop seeking closeness to your ex.

The aim

Stop checking on your ex, contacting them and going over them in your head, with techniques you choose.

What you get

  • 16 behavioral techniques to choose from
  • 5 cognitive techniques to choose from
  • A PDF you can fill in on screen or print
  • Sent to your email.

From my researchIn my research, seeking closeness to your ex (proximity seeking) was associated with more breakup grief.

Dr. Silvia Buet González

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Dr. Silvia Buet González

Author and psychologist. Over 35 years of experience in the UK as a BABCP-accredited CBT psychotherapist. PhD research on breakup distress at Queen’s University Belfast.

Cognitive Behavioral Techniques To Stop Seeking Closeness To Your Ex